Self-worth is to know and consider one’s value. Self-worth is the most crucial aspect of one’s life. If a person doesn’t know and regard himself or herself, then that person cannot expect from others to respect her and value their self-worth. This means to have love from others, first of all, we should love ourselves.
Loving ourselves in our present moment is pre-eminent, and we really need to be mindful of it. Self-worth and self-love go hand in hand, and both compliment each other. Self-worth gives a sense of conviction, credence, and confidence to have a successful life and in the absence of self-worth, it is difficult to reach the destination and achieve the set goals of ones’ life.
Self-worth and self-love also affect each other in a way that one is affected by the other and this whole process works in a cyclic form.
When we do respect our own selves, we care for our individuality, and this leads to self-love which is an indispensable part of our life. The value of Self-love could not be denied.
We usually don’t see us in the good accepting perspective instead we look at our body and lowers our worth by forbidding its value in terms of its looks. We usually do compare ourselves with others, but that’s not a good habit because by comparison of ours body with that of a supermodel or a person having a perfect body leave us with nothing but anguish.
Why is self-worth important in the present moment?
Self-worth is much critical in one’s life and is necessary for normal accustomed functioning. Feeling low self-worth in the present moment could be due to some reasons such as:
- False perspective: It means that we don’t exactly know how we look and just by others perspective we start to believe that we don’t look good or have a better appearance.
- We as human beings are always malcontented with what we have and always looks at those things which we don’t have. This is the malicious nature of people that they always run after what is not available and not regarding the value of what is in hand. This nature turns a human being into a “complaining being.”
Thinking about self-worth in the present moment is so mandatory but we often do neglect it because we don’t value the precious time we have in our hands.
What is in our hands today will not be there in our future life. Our physical strengths, beauty, and charm fade with the passage of time. What we have today, perhaps we will not be having it in our future. So try to live the “PRESENT” with full passion and liveliness.
The present is about the NOW. Everything and anything that is present in our NOW moment and make it PRESENT for us. If we do not enjoy our present, continue to live in past and foreseeing the future we will never be able to enjoy the present joys of out body, and we will squander this exquisite time we have presently. It is like now or never situation. If we don’t deem the present, we will never be able to enjoy it again.